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Mommy's New BoyfriendTue, Jul 7th 1998
I've been divorced about 1 and 1/2 years. The ex just had her boyfriend move in. I have two children ages 5 and 9. I have summer custody, and will only let her see them every other weekend, unlike last summer. The boyfriend moved partly in about two weeks ago. What are the effects of this on the children, and was I wrong to keep the kids away from this as much as possible?
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